Nigerian singer Simi has shared some insightful advice for parents, focusing on how to raise strong, independent daughters. In a recent video, Simi emphasized the importance of teaching girls not to rely on men for their needs but to empower them to be self-sufficient and capable.
She expressed her disapproval of parents who tell their daughters that they’ll find someone to take care of them when they grow up. According to Simi, this mindset limits their potential. Instead, she encouraged parents to raise daughters who are capable of contributing meaningfully to any relationship. "It's important for a woman to have something to offer so that when she meets a generous partner, she can also reciprocate," Simi explained.
Acknowledging her own upbringing, Simi admitted that she speaks from a place of privilege, having received love and support growing up. She added that not all women have been as fortunate and urged society to be kinder and more supportive of women. She encouraged giving women the opportunities they deserve, especially when they qualify for them.
The conversation sparked reactions from followers, with some supporting Simi’s stance and others sharing their perspectives. One user, peaceful_baddie, commented, “The truth is, without men, 90% of women won’t be able to afford luxury like bone-straight hair... men are the backbone of my gender, so we have to appreciate them.”
In contrast, thefixerlawyer praised Simi’s insight, saying, “Simi is smart and unproblematic. Well said.” Another user, intimatesbykoko, added, “Greatness isn’t gender-based. It’s best to rely on yourself; it saves you from stress.”
The discussion continued as others chimed in, with its_rasheedat noting, “It’s sad that it’s mostly women opposing this advice. All these fine women with empty skulls.” Finally, charmnova said, “Imagine women with money! These men wouldn’t even have a say. Women, make your own money!”
