In a moment that’s both touching and oddly humorous, a grandmother has gone viral for taking charge of her own final farewell—while still very much alive.
A TikTok user, @just_kamoni, shared a video showing her elderly grandmother calmly editing what appeared to be her funeral program on a desktop computer. From selecting her favorite photos to assigning who would sing, speak, and even manage the service, Grandma had it all mapped out like a seasoned event planner.
Shocked by the level of preparation, the granddaughter questioned why she was doing all this so soon. But the wise matriarch was unfazed.
“I’m going sooner than you think. You only have to put the date I die there,” she said, without flinching.“I have the program, order of service, who I want to speak, sing… It’s going to go just like I said. It’s my funeral, I can have it my way. Period!”
The touching exchange has captured hearts across social media, with many praising the grandma’s courage, clarity, and sense of humor in the face of mortality. Some found it deeply emotional, while others were inspired to start planning ahead, just like her.
@just_kamoni Does anyone else’s grandparents do this? #grandma #oldlady #funny #blackfamily #fyp #family ♬ original sound - Just_Kamoni
